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You have seen and heard the hype. Swinging. Sex. The Lifestyle. Sex. Maybe even more sex.

But what is "The Lifestyle," and how does one actually participate?

Maybe you are a single guy, just looking for some extra sex, and a whole community of sex-oriented folks seems like a good place to find it. No strings attached. Excellent.

Maybe you are single guy looking for a relationship with a single woman already part of the lifestyle. You identify as, or would like to be, non-monogamous, and it seems like finding a woman who already is would be much easier. (It is.) Fair.

Maybe you are a man in a sexless relationship, just curious whether this "lifestyle" thing has a place for you and your partner has given you the OK to find out. What next?

These are all things I hear from men contacting me who want to know more about getting into it.

There is a lot of curiosity, and not a lot of easy straight answers out there.

So I made this video course for you.

(and Other Useful Information for Single Men Who Want to Learn More About Swinging and the Lifestyle)

It answers:

  • Why single men have a rough reputation in the lifestyle and how to not be one of the guys who earned it.

  • Why "everyone's having sex all the time with everyone" is the biggest myth out there and why the truth is trickier.

  • The apps actually worth your time, and what makes a profile stand out.

  • What you're expected to pay for.

  • The boundaries conversation, how to read the room, and what to actually do about performance nerves.

So You Want In? A Single Guy's Guide to the Lifestyle

Swinging and the lifestyle are hard to learn about from the outside. Most people are not open about being in it, so who do you even ask? This course is your insider’s view.

Decide once and for all if this feels like a place for you. You will know exactly which apps are worth your time, what to pay for, what to skip, and how not to be the guy everyone's already warned each other about.

$19.99 5 short videos that you can Watch it in an afternoon.

If you can't afford $20 for this, rest assured, you cannot afford to be in the lifestyle. I’m just sayin’.

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Who Am I?

I am a relationship coach and maybe more relevant here, my husband and I have been in the lifestyle for over eight years. I coach couples in it and I live it every day. I have single guy friends in it and single women friends too. As a coach and a friend, I've heard just about everything there is to hear. I am Lauren Hayes, Swinging Lifestyle Coach.

Are you partnered, and want to learn how to explore non-monogamy and the lifestyle this together? Visit my homepage.