The Masculine/ Feminine Playbook
A new perspective for men and women who want more.
There is something we talk about, but not everyone fully understands: the lifestyle tends to be female-led. The couples who do it most beautifully - where she's fully in her power and he's fully in his - have cracked something about masculine and feminine energy that goes way beyond the bedroom.
The Masculine/Feminine Playbook is a live expert series exploring what it actually means to embody healthy masculine and feminine ways of being - in your relationship, in the lifestyle, and in yourself.
7 sessions hosted by Lauren Hayes, each featuring a different expert voice
Live on Zoom, free to attend
Topics spanning healthy masculine, healthy feminine, polarity, desire, power dynamics, and conscious relating
Designed for couples and singles already in the lifestyle who are ready to go deeper, and for anyone in any relationship structure for whom this resonates
Recordings available for purchase if you want to revisit the conversations
This is about a new perspective on the dynamics already at play in your relationships and in our culture at large - and what becomes possible when we all start running better plays.
You will leave each session with a clearer understanding of yourself, your partner, and the invisible forces that shape how you connect - feeling more desired, more seen, and more in sync. Whether you're in the best relationship of your life or still figuring out what that looks like, these are the conversations you didn't know you needed.
WHO THIS IS FOR
You're in the lifestyle (or curious or open-minded about it), you're in a great relationship or still figuring out what that looks like, and you're ready to look a little deeper at the dynamics between you - and within you.
A series of 7 experts…
(M) Masculine Containment: Inspired to Lead
MarcAnthony Chiaramonte
September 9, 2026 @ 6:00 PM MST
(F) Sovereignty: The Feminine Skill Non-Monogamy Actually Requires
Kasia Love Li
October 14, 2026 @ 6:00 PM MST
(M) From Enmeshed to Expanded: How Couples Move from Fear-based Boundaries to Freely Chosen Love
Lisa Renda
November 11, 2026 @ 6:00PM MST
(F) Magnetic Without Seeking: A Woman's Path to Radiant Wholeness
Deborah & Brandon Yager
January 13, 2027 @ 6:00PM MST
(M) Hard Without Grasping: A Man's Presence Without Control
Brandon & Deborah Yager
February 10, 2027 @ 6:00PM MST
(f) Fem-Intuition: The 4 Pillars of the Divine Feminine
Mayah Rose Rogers
March 10, 2027 @ 6:00PM MST
(M) Becoming the World’s Greatest Lover
Gerald Rogers
April 14, 2027 @ 6:00pm MST
HOW IT WORKS
yes — register here
You’ll be sent a confirmation with the zoom link (same link for all). These are free if attended live.
OR
yes and — purchase here
If you prefer the recordings, $47 will get you all recordings, available after each session.
Ready to explore what healthy masculine and feminine energy really looks like - in the lifestyle, in our culture and in your relationship?
Register now.
series talks descriptions
September 9 - Masculine
Masculine Containment: Inspired to Lead
Most men learn to lead by armoring up. MarcAnthony Chiaramonte offers a different path: leadership that comes from containment, not control. The capacity to hold space for your own emotion, and for others', without collapsing or dominating.
MarcAnthony explores what it actually means for a man to build a "safe container" for himself, his relationships, and the people he leads. He'll unpack why true leadership isn't about suppressing the feminine within, but attuning to it, and how that becomes the source of real inspiration, presence, and power.
October 14 - feminine
Sovereignty: The Feminine Skill Non-Monogamy Actually Requires
Most feminine-embodiment work assumes one partner is holding your sense of security. Non-monogamy removes that illusion, and exposes whether your feminine is sovereign or just well-managed. Drawing from the Queens Code framework and her own facilitation work, Kasia Love Li breaks down what changes when there’s no single throne, why jealousy is often a sovereignty problem in disguise, and how women in the lifestyle can build a feminine that doesn’t need one partner’s behavior to stay regulated.
november 11 - Masculine
From Enmeshed to Expanded: How Couples Move from Fear-based Boundaries to Freely Chosen Love
A common challenge in conscious couples is the tendency towards codependent behavior in their dynamic. To avoid it, the pendulum too often swings towards rigid boundaries and distancing. This illuminating talk, led by Lisa Renda, will discuss the daily practices of compassion within the coupleship to move through difficulty and common conflict points into expanded states of heart centered love.
january 13 - feminine
Fem-Intuition: The 4 Pillars of the divine feminine
For generations, women have been taught to doubt their intuition and suppress some of their greatest gifts. In this transformational session, you’ll discover the four pillars that awaken your feminine wisdom, strengthen your inner knowing, and help you lead your life from confidence, authenticity, and grace. Led by Mayah Rose Rogers.
february 10 - Masculine
Hard Without Grasping: A Man's Presence Without Control
In Egyptian mythology, the Djed is the backbone of Osiris, the pillar of stability everything organizes around. A man's power works the same way: not controlling his partner to ease his own anxiety, but becoming so grounded he can give her freedom without flinching.
Brandon and Deborah guide you through three steps to activate and own your own Djed pillar, turning jealousy and fear into radical self-ownership so the feminine can move freely and shine.
march 10 - feminine
Magnetic Without Seeking: A Woman's Path to Radiant Wholeness
In Egyptian mythology, when Osiris was scattered, Isis gathered his pieces, re-membered him, and breathed life back into him. A woman's power moves the same way: not shrinking or seeking validation, but gathering her own pieces until she's rooted enough to radiate freely.
Deborah and Brandon guide you through three steps from the Isis mysteries, gathering, re-membering, and breathing life, to becoming fully expressed and fully whole.
You'll learn to own your desires honestly and be magnetic from a place of fullness rather than seeking.
april 7 - masculine
how to be the world’s best lover
What if being the world’s greatest lover had very little to do with technique and everything to do with presence?
In this heartfelt and transformative presentation, Gerald Rogers explores how the Divine Masculine is expressed through emotional safety, unwavering presence, courageous truth, and devoted love.
Discover how a man becomes the kind of partner who inspires his beloved to feel deeply seen, cherished, and free. Whether you’re in a sacred union or preparing for one, you’ll learn how true masculine leadership creates the foundation for profound intimacy, polarity, healing, and lasting love.
This is an invitation to redefine what it means to be a great lover and to become the kind of man whose love transforms lives.
Hi, I’m Lauren.
Relationship coach, author, speaker and someone who has lived, loved, and learned through the beauty and complexity of the ENM lifestyle for years.
I designed and am hosting this series as much to learn from these experts as to be a conduit for the masculine-feminine shift already happening in our culture.
I believe the lifestyle quietly captures some of the healthiest dynamics between masculine and feminine energy and that's worth exploring out loud. This series is that exploration. My hope is that what we uncover together transforms the world, one relationship at a time.
meet the speakers
Marc Anthony Chiaramonte
MarcAnthony is a Guide and Initiator of Men who leads them through the fire of truth into the strength of their awakened selves.
He is a highly sought-after international coach who guides individuals, groups, and couples to achieve intimacy, alignment, and confidence. He is also an entrepreneur and co-host of the podcast, Breakthrough the Ordinary.
Masculine Containment: Inspired to Lead
Kasia Love Li is a relationship facilitator, pleasure practitioner, sexological body worker, and the founder of Wonderment of Worship, an experiential education practice rooted in conscious intimacy and embodiment.
Trained in the Queens Code framework, she works with men, women, and couples to expand their capacity to receive pleasure and build a feminine that doesn’t outsource its security to a partner’s behavior.
Sovereignity: The Feminine Skill Non-Monogamy Actually RequiresKasia Love Li
From Enmeshed to Expanded: How Couples Move from Fear-based Boundaries to Freely Chosen Lovelisa renda
Lisa is a licensed marriage and family therapist with over 21 years of experience counseling people from all walks of life and in a variety of life circumstances.
One day, she noticed something: Most of her clients were not "unwell." They were peeling back layers and shedding old stories, resulting in a loss of grounded balance in how they knew themselves. They were discovering exciting and sometimes unsettling psycho-spiritual aspects of their being. This led them to question identity, meaning, purpose, and consciousness itself.
So she created something vivid and new.
deborah & brandon yager
Magnetic Without Seeking: A Woman's Path to Radiant WholenessDeborah and Brandon Yager are transformational facilitators and performance coaches.
Through their retreats in Egypt and the Mayan world of Guatemala, and their signature blend of ancient wisdom and modern mastery, they help people turn inward, reconnect with their own divine intelligence, and clear what's been in the way, so they can step into their true power and stand fully grounded in it.
Hard Without Grasping: A Man's Presence Without Control
mayah rose rogers
Fem-Intuition: The 4 Pillars of the divine feminineMayah Rose Rogers is an international speaker, author, high-level coach and founder of Fem-Intuition.
She has spent over 20 years empowering women to awaken their intuition, embody the Divine Feminine, and create businesses, relationships and lives they love with greater confidence, connection, and purpose.
gerald rogers
Gerald Rogers is a bestselling author, transformational leader, speaker, and globally recognized life and relationship coach. He has dedicated his career to helping people break out of societal conformity and step into their authentic power. His work on mindset shift and leadership has been featured on The Today Show, NBC, ABC, and the Huffington Post.
As a master coach, Gerald specializes in Identity Transformation, helping individuals reprogram the subconscious mind and dismantle limiting ego patterns.
Becoming the World’s Greatest Lover