Play Smart, Love Big: The Essential Guide to Boundaries and Agreements in Ethical Non-Monogamy
“Where do we even begin?”
If you’re exploring ethical non-monogamy for the first time, this question has probably come up more than once.
Do we need rules?
What kinds of boundaries make sense?
How do we create agreements that feel supportive, not restrictive?
Welcome to one of the most common sticking points for couples just starting out: agreements.
The truth is: you don’t need a rulebook.
But you do need a roadmap.
Introducing the Play Smart, Love Big Guide
A thoughtfully curated, beautifully simple guide to help you and your partner:
Get clear on what matters most to each of you
Start real conversations without getting stuck in overwhelm
Explore the “what ifs” with curiosity instead of fear
Create agreements that support both freedom and security
Inside, you'll find:
✔️ Core categories of agreements to consider
✔️ Conversation prompts to open up meaningful dialogue
✔️ Real-world examples (not rules!) to help you find your way
✔️ Tips for revisiting and evolving your agreements as you grow
Feel Peace of Mind Instead of Pressure
You don’t need to be perfect, have all the answers, or figure it all out before you begin.
This guide isn’t here to tell you what to do—it’s here to help you feel grounded, less anxious, and more connected as you navigate the early stages of non-monogamy.
Whether You're Saying...
“We’re curious but nervous.”
“I just want to make sure we do this right.”
“We’ve talked about it… now what?”
…this guide will help you take the next step with more confidence and clarity.
Get the Guide for Just $19.99
For the price of a fancy cocktail or two, you’ll get a beautifully designed, immediately actionable guide that will serve you throughout your ENM journey—and evolve with you.
(And yes—this guide will eventually be part of a larger bundle, so this is your chance to grab it early.)
Ready to explore with ease?
Let’s make this less scary—and a lot more fun.
You’re not just talking about agreements—you’re learning more about each other.
“Where do we even begin?”
If you’re exploring ethical non-monogamy for the first time, this question has probably come up more than once.
Do we need rules?
What kinds of boundaries make sense?
How do we create agreements that feel supportive, not restrictive?
Welcome to one of the most common sticking points for couples just starting out: agreements.
The truth is: you don’t need a rulebook.
But you do need a roadmap.
Introducing the Play Smart, Love Big Guide
A thoughtfully curated, beautifully simple guide to help you and your partner:
Get clear on what matters most to each of you
Start real conversations without getting stuck in overwhelm
Explore the “what ifs” with curiosity instead of fear
Create agreements that support both freedom and security
Inside, you'll find:
✔️ Core categories of agreements to consider
✔️ Conversation prompts to open up meaningful dialogue
✔️ Real-world examples (not rules!) to help you find your way
✔️ Tips for revisiting and evolving your agreements as you grow
Feel Peace of Mind Instead of Pressure
You don’t need to be perfect, have all the answers, or figure it all out before you begin.
This guide isn’t here to tell you what to do—it’s here to help you feel grounded, less anxious, and more connected as you navigate the early stages of non-monogamy.
Whether You're Saying...
“We’re curious but nervous.”
“I just want to make sure we do this right.”
“We’ve talked about it… now what?”
…this guide will help you take the next step with more confidence and clarity.
Get the Guide for Just $19.99
For the price of a fancy cocktail or two, you’ll get a beautifully designed, immediately actionable guide that will serve you throughout your ENM journey—and evolve with you.
(And yes—this guide will eventually be part of a larger bundle, so this is your chance to grab it early.)
Ready to explore with ease?
Let’s make this less scary—and a lot more fun.
You’re not just talking about agreements—you’re learning more about each other.
“Where do we even begin?”
If you’re exploring ethical non-monogamy for the first time, this question has probably come up more than once.
Do we need rules?
What kinds of boundaries make sense?
How do we create agreements that feel supportive, not restrictive?
Welcome to one of the most common sticking points for couples just starting out: agreements.
The truth is: you don’t need a rulebook.
But you do need a roadmap.
Introducing the Play Smart, Love Big Guide
A thoughtfully curated, beautifully simple guide to help you and your partner:
Get clear on what matters most to each of you
Start real conversations without getting stuck in overwhelm
Explore the “what ifs” with curiosity instead of fear
Create agreements that support both freedom and security
Inside, you'll find:
✔️ Core categories of agreements to consider
✔️ Conversation prompts to open up meaningful dialogue
✔️ Real-world examples (not rules!) to help you find your way
✔️ Tips for revisiting and evolving your agreements as you grow
Feel Peace of Mind Instead of Pressure
You don’t need to be perfect, have all the answers, or figure it all out before you begin.
This guide isn’t here to tell you what to do—it’s here to help you feel grounded, less anxious, and more connected as you navigate the early stages of non-monogamy.
Whether You're Saying...
“We’re curious but nervous.”
“I just want to make sure we do this right.”
“We’ve talked about it… now what?”
…this guide will help you take the next step with more confidence and clarity.
Get the Guide for Just $19.99
For the price of a fancy cocktail or two, you’ll get a beautifully designed, immediately actionable guide that will serve you throughout your ENM journey—and evolve with you.
(And yes—this guide will eventually be part of a larger bundle, so this is your chance to grab it early.)
Ready to explore with ease?
Let’s make this less scary—and a lot more fun.
You’re not just talking about agreements—you’re learning more about each other.